Age Play in BDSM

What is age play?

Ageplay or age play is a form of roleplaying in which an individual acts or treats another as if they are a different age. Age play is roleplaying between adults, and involves consent from all parties

Age Play

Exploring Age play in BDSM

Age play is a term used to describe a variety of BDSM roleplay scenarios where individuals pretend to be a different age, typically younger, than their actual age. 

It is a relatively common practice within the kink community and offers a range of experiences for participants. This article aims to provide insights into age play, including different roles involved and activity ideas, highlighting the importance of consent and safety in engaging with this form of play.

Understanding Roles in Age play

Adult Babies

Adult babies enjoy regressing to an infantile state, finding comfort in activities like using pacifiers, relaxing in cribs, and receiving attentive care. It is important to note that adult baby play is primarily non-sexual, serving as an escape from adult responsibilities and stress.

Littles

Littles embrace a child-like role during ageplay sessions, engaging in activities such as colouring, zoo visits, and dressing in playful outfits. Littles find joy in exploring the world with a child's wonder and imagination.

Middles

Middles take on the role of teenagers, participating in activities like playing video games, mall trips, and reluctantly doing homework. Middles often exhibit a more rebellious or bratty behaviour, with power dynamics and punishment playing a significant part in the play.

Brats 

A brat is a role where someone enjoys teasing and challenging their dominant partner. They engage in playful and disobedient behaviour to create a power struggle and elicit reactions. 

Bigs

Bigs, or caregivers, are the adult counterparts in ageplay scenarios. They assume the role of the responsible adult, providing guidance and nurturing to their little, middle, or adult baby partner. Bigs can adopt various roles, such as mommy, daddy, teacher, or uncle, based on mutual preferences and comfort.

Additional Roles

Daddy Doms

Daddy doms are a specific type of dominant, often associated with ageplay. They display sensitivity and nurturing tendencies, focused on the growth and development of their submissive/little/bottom partner. Daddy doms may engage in age-based roleplay or simply exhibit caring traits.

Siblings

In some cases, ageplay scenes involve multiple littles or participants regressing together. The term "siblings" refers to a generic term for multiple littles, indicating more than one little present in a given scene.

Ageplay Dynamics and Consent

While ageplay often involves a power dynamic, with the big assuming a dominant role and the little submitting, there are instances where the roles can be reversed. 

The power dynamics in ageplay can vary, allowing for scenarios where the little is in charge or engaging in power struggles. As with any kink-related activity, the dynamics and roles should be based on consent and mutual agreement.

Sexual and Non-Sexual Aspects

Ageplay experiences can be either sexual or non-sexual, depending on the preferences and comfort levels of the participants involved. 

Many individuals engage in ageplay solely for the non-sexual aspects, seeking relaxation, fun, and a break from adult responsibilities. 

It is essential to differentiate ageplay from any attraction to minors or abusive behaviours. Ageplay is a consensual, imaginative play between adults and should always be conducted with respect and within legal boundaries.

Ageplay Activity Ideas

Colouring In

Enjoy the stress-relieving and creative activity of colouring, allowing self-expression and exploration without boundaries.

Snacks

Procure or prepare snacks together, including a trip to the store for pick 'n' mix or arranging cute tupperware containers with healthy options.

Playtime

Engage in playtime activities with toys, such as building blocks, cars, or organising imaginative roleplays with stuffed animals.

Video Games

Explore video games suitable for littles or middles, providing a fun and interactive experience that aligns with their interests.

Day Trips

Plan outings to places like the zoo, aquarium, or local parks, offering opportunities to appreciate cute animals and enjoy quality time together.

Story Time

Create a soothing environment for reading books, either before bed or as a way to teach reading skills to your little.

Baking

Spend a day baking together, involving your little in selecting a recipe, gathering ingredients, and enjoying the process of making delicious treats.

Rewards and Punishments

Establish a reward-based system with gold stars or stickers for good behaviour and taking them away for misbehaviour, allowing your little to trade them for snacks or extended playtime.

Bathtime

Make bath time enjoyable by adding bubbles, toys, and incorporating scents that your little finds comforting.

Watching Movies or TV

Choose child-friendly content platforms like YouTube Kids or Disney+ to watch videos or shows that align with your little's interests and monitor their viewing experiences.

Ageplay in BDSM offers a space for imaginative exploration, stress relief, and bonding within the kink community. 

Remember that ageplay activities should always be based on the consent and comfort of all participants involved. 

By maintaining open communication, respecting boundaries, and prioritising safety, ageplay can be an enjoyable and fulfilling experience for consenting adults to embrace their playful and nurturing sides.

Nicholas Jardine 12/07/2023