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Handkerchief Codes in BDSM
Handkerchief Codes in BDSM: A Guide to a Unique System of Communication Handkerchief codes, also known as “hanky codes,” are a...
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Nicholas Jardine
Nov 134 min read
Figging in BDSM: A Safe and Educational Guide
Figging, a unique practice within BDSM, involves inserting a peeled piece of ginger into the rectum or vagina to produce a warming sensation
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Nicholas Jardine
Nov 14 min read
Corset Fetishism.
A fetish that explores power exchange and shape-changing through the use of corsets, which can sometimes restrict breathing.
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Nicholas Jardine
Oct 235 min read
Educational Guide to Swinging and BDSM
Discover the world of Swinging and BDSM in our educational guide. Learn about consent, safety, and ethical exploration for singles.
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Nicholas Jardine
Sep 286 min read
Casual BDSM Encounters.
Casual BDSM encounters can be empowering, but they require clear communication, safety measures, and realistic expectations.
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Nicholas Jardine
Sep 245 min read
Auctioned Off in BDSM.
In the BDSM realm, being “auctioned off” is a type of role-playing where one person (typically the submissive) is put up for auction.
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Nicholas Jardine
Sep 224 min read
Fisting: A Playful, Safe, and Sensational Guide
Fisting is more than just a kinky act—it's about trust, connection, and safe exploration. Ready to go hands-on? Dive into our playful, safe
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Nicholas Jardine
Sep 185 min read
How to Start Exploring BDSM as a Beginner.
Start your BDSM journey with consent, fun, and safety. Explore roles, toys, and aftercare with tips from The Aftercare Lounge!
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Nicholas Jardine
Sep 137 min read
Bratting Respectfully.
The Playful World of Brats and Smart-Ass Masochists in BDSM: Navigating Fun, Respect, and Boundaries
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Kaylie
Sep 115 min read
The Thirst Trap Phenomenon.
This article explores the complexities of the thirst trap phenomenon & the line between self-confidence and social media thirst within BDSM
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Nicholas Jardine
Sep 17 min read
The End of a BDSM Dynamic
The end of any relationship can be challenging, but when a dynamic concludes, the process of moving on can feel uniquely difficult.
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Kaylie
Aug 295 min read
Exploring Energy Exchange in BDSM
Energy exchange refers to the dynamic flow of energy between individuals, particularly during intimate or intense interactions.
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Kaylie
Aug 274 min read
Spirituality and BDSM
Spirituality, at its core, is about seeking connection—whether that be with oneself, others, the universe, or a higher power.
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Nicholas Jardine
Aug 209 min read
The Psychology of Submission
Submission, the act of yielding or surrendering to the authority or will of another, a psychological phenomenon that has intrigued scholars
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Nicholas Jardine
Aug 155 min read
"Bad Pain" in BDSM.
"Bad pain" refers to any pain experienced during a BDSM scene that is harmful, unintended, or unsafe.
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Kaylie
Aug 155 min read
Overcoming Disrespect in a BDSM Relationship
While power dynamics play a significant role in these relationships, disrespect should never be tolerated or overlooked.
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Nicholas Jardine
Aug 125 min read
BDSM and Attachment Theory
BDSM and attachment theory intersect in exploring how early bonds influence adult intimacy, with BDSM roles reflecting attachment needs and
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Nicholas Jardine
Aug 33 min read
BDSM and Sexual Health: how to Practice Safe Sex.
Sexual health within the BDSM community involves more than just physical safety; it also includes emotional and psychological care
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Nicholas Jardine
Jul 255 min read
Misconceptions About Submission in BDSM and Feminism.
We will address ten prevalent misconceptions and provide detailed explanations for each, and exploration of how submission can be empowering
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Kaylie
Jul 53 min read
Pet Names and Titles in BDSM
In the multifaceted world of BDSM, pet names and titles hold a significant place