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Aftercare Part II

Updated: Apr 3

What is aftercare?

Aftercare is a broad term for how you and your partner support each other and check-in after you've had sex.

Aftercare 2

Today we're going to continue on something very important: BDSM Aftercare

That's right, the fun doesn't have to end when the scene is over.

So, sit back, relax, and let's dive into five key points for taking care of each other post-play:

Cuddle like your life depends on it!

Aftercare is all about physical and emotional connection, and what better way to achieve that than with a good old-fashioned snuggle?

Wrap your arms around your partner and hold them close. Let the warmth of your bodies and the beating of your hearts remind you both that you're alive, you're loved, and you're in this together. Plus, who doesn't love a good cuddle session?

Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate

All that spanking and bondage can really take it out of you. So, make sure you and your partner are staying hydrated after your scene.

Drink water, Energy drink or coconut water - whatever floats your boat.

Not only will it help you recover faster, but it'll also give you an excuse to show off your cute water bottle collection.

Have a debriefing session

It's important to check in with your partner after your scene to make sure they're feeling okay physically and emotionally.

Ask them how they're doing, what they liked, what they didn't like, and if there's anything you can do to make the experience better next time.

This debriefing session not only helps you both grow as partners but also ensures that you're both on the same page moving forward.

Indulge in some self-care

BDSM scenes can be intense, so it's important to take some time for yourself to decompress afterward.

Take a bath, read a book, watch your favourite show, or do whatever makes you feel good. Encourage your partner to do the same. After all, self-care is not selfish, it's necessary.

Say "I love you" (or something equally mushy)

Aftercare is all about love and connection, so don't be afraid to express it.

Whether it's a simple "I love you" or something more elaborate, let your partner know how much they mean to you. After all, the best part of BDSM is the trust and intimacy it can create between partners.

So, there you have it - five key points for BDSM aftercare.

Remember, aftercare is just as important as the scene itself, and taking care of each other is what makes our kinky community so special.

Now go forth, my friends, and love on each other!

Kaylie Louise Bond 27/04/2023 ©