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What is consensual non consensual ?
CNC is when partners agree to act out their forced sexual fantasies and fetishes. Consensual non-consent acts involve having one person's consent to engage in a forced yet intense sexual activity
There is something both thrilling and, darn right HOT! When it comes to being taken without consent…having given consent prior!
The buzz of not knowing if and when the act of CNC might or might not take place…
The unknown really is a turn on, the fight and the surrender adds a real intensity 🥵
Consensual non consensual is it for you? Let's take a closer look!
Consensual non-consensual (CNC) is a specific type of roleplay within the BDSM. Where participants engage in scenarios of non-consensual activities.
CNC is based on clear agreements and established boundaries. It requires open communication, trust, and a strong emphasis on consent, safety, and aftercare.
This article aims to provide a comprehensive guide to consensual non consensual play, including…
Types of scenarios
Setting up
Acting out CNC
Safety measures
Aftercare considerations
What is CNC?
Consensual non-consensual refers to a consensual agreement between participants to act out scenes that simulate non-consensual activities.
It involves a pre-negotiated understanding of roles, boundaries, and communication methods to ensure the emotional and physical well-being of all involved.
Types of CNC Scenarios:
1. Power Exchange:
CNC often involves power dynamics where one partner takes on the dominant role, exerting control, and the other partner assumes the submissive role, relinquishing control.
2. Kidnapping and Abduction:
Participants can engage in role plays where one partner acts as the captor and the other as the captive, exploring themes of control, domination, and surrender.
3. Interrogation and Resistance:
This scenario can involve intense roleplay where one partner plays the interrogator and the other partner the captive, with an emphasis on verbal and psychological domination.
4. Ravishment and Forced Sex:
In this scenario, participants engage in role play where one partner initiates sexual activities without explicit consent, adhering to predetermined boundaries and using safe words.
These are just a few I’m sure you could think of more if you allow your imagination guide you😉
Setting Up for Consensual Non-consensual Play:
Communication and Negotiation:
Honest Conversations: Engage in open and honest discussions about desires, limits, boundaries, and expectations.
Safe Words:
Establish a safe word or system that allows the submissive partner to communicate if they need to stop or slow down the scene.
Consent Agreements:
Some couples prefer to create written consent agreements or contracts that outline the boundaries and limits of the CNC play.
Emergency Plan:
Develop an emergency plan to ensure the safety and well-being of all participants in case unforeseen circumstances arise.
Preparing the Play Space:
Safety Considerations: Designate a play area free from obstacles and hazards, ensuring a safe environment for all involved.
Consent-Affirming Environment:
Create an atmosphere that promotes trust, respect, and open communication to enable participants to express their needs and concerns.
Acting Out A CNC Scene.
1. Roles and Dynamics:
Establishing Roles:
Clearly define the roles of the dominant and submissive partners and any other participants involved.
Consent and Boundaries:
Clearly communicate and respect the agreed-upon boundaries and limits throughout the scene.
Continuous Consent:
Maintain a continuous dialogue during the play to ensure that all participants are comfortable and consenting.
2. Communication and Sensory Awareness:
Non-Verbal Communication:
Establish non-verbal cues or signals to allow the submissive partner to communicate their comfort level or any changes in their emotional or physical state.
Sensory Awareness:
Pay attention to the submissive partner's responses, body language, and any indications of discomfort or distress.
Safety Measures To Consider:
1. Physical Safety:
Education and Skill Development:
Acquire knowledge and skills in BDSM activities involved in CNC play to minimise the risk of harm or injury.
Safe Play Tools:
Use well-maintained BDSM equipment and toys , following proper usage, hygiene, and safety protocols.
Monitoring:
Regularly check for signs of physical discomfort, distress, or potential injuries. Pause or stop the scene if necessary.
2. Emotional Safety:
Emotional Check-Ins:
Continuously gauge and support each other's emotional well-being throughout the scene, ensuring open communication and reassurance.
Respect for Limits:
Always respect the agreed-upon boundaries and limits. Be attentive to signs of emotional distress and be prepared to provide comfort and support.
CNC Aftercare:
Debriefing and Communication:
Post-Scene Discussion: Engage in a discussion to share thoughts, feelings, and experiences related to the scene, acknowledging each other's emotions and experiences.
Validation and Gratitude:
Validate each other's experiences, express gratitude for trust and vulnerability, and address any concerns or unexpected emotions.
Emotional and Physical Support:
Emotional Recovery:
Offer emotional support and reassurance to each other, acknowledging the intensity of the scene.
Self-Care:
Engage in self-care practices such as rest, relaxation, or activities that promote emotional and physical well-being.
Ongoing Check-Ins:
Continued Communication:
Regularly check in with each other in the hours, days, and weeks following the scene to ensure emotional recovery and address any lingering concerns.
Consensual Non-consensual play can be a thrilling and deeply intimate shared experience within the BDSM.
Open communication, consent, safety measures, and aftercare are paramount in playing out a successful CNC scene.
You can engage in CNC play while nurturing trust, emotional well-being, and the growth of your BDSM dynamic.
Remember to continually educate yourselves, consult reputable resources, and engage in ongoing communication to ensure a safe and consensual experience.
Hope this article helps cover the basics of CNC role-play.
If you have any questions please ask away in the comments 😊
Much Love ❤️