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What is sub frenzy ?
Sub frenzy is a phenomenon that affects many new submissives. It's that first rush of overwhelming, consuming desire to experience every kind of kink, as soon as possible !!!
When Enthusiasm Turns Into Chaos !!
Are you ready to talk about sub frenzy?
Yes…
Great let’s dive into and explore the thrilling and sometimes overwhelming world of sub frenzy below. Sub frenzy is a phenomenon that many people in the BDSM community experience.
It's the intense desire to explore the world of submission, and it can lead to a rush of excitement and enthusiasm that's hard to contain. But with that excitement comes a risk, both to the sub and the top they play with. So, let's break it down and explore everything there is to know about sub frenzy.
What is sub frenzy?
Sub frenzy is the intense desire to dive headfirst into the world of submission. It's the feeling of being ravenous for experiences that are new, exciting, and potentially dangerous.
Essentially, it's a desire to consume everything in the BDSM world as quickly as possible.
While this excitement can be exhilarating, it's important to recognize that it can also be dangerous.
What is the difference between sub frenzy and general enthusiasm?
General enthusiasm is an overall excitement about BDSM, while sub frenzy is a more intense and almost obsessive desire to experience everything that BDSM has to offer.
Enthusiasm is healthy, while sub frenzy can be dangerous.
What are the signs you are suffering from sub frenzy?
Sub frenzy can manifest in a variety of ways, but some common signs include:
An intense desire to play with anyone who will have you, regardless of whether you know them or not.
Feeling like you need to experience everything at once, rather than taking your time and exploring gradually.
Obsessively thinking about BDSM, even when you're not actively participating in it.
Difficulty focusing on anything else.
Feeling anxious or depressed if you're not engaging in BDSM.
Why does sub frenzy impair a submissive's judgement?
Sub frenzy can impair a submissive's judgement because they're so focused on fulfilling their desires that they may not be thinking about their safety. They may play with someone they don't know well or engage in activities that are beyond their limits.
This can lead to potentially dangerous situations that could have been avoided if the sub had taken their time and thought more carefully about their actions.
How does sub frenzy affect a top/dominant negatively?
A top who plays with someone in sub frenzy may find themselves dealing with a lot of misunderstandings that, even if they don't result in a serious accident, can still result in tears and drama from an unhappy submissive who puts all the blame squarely on their shoulders.
At worst, the top may find a policeman knocking on their door, or rumours circulating that they are not a "safe" player. At the very least, the dominant gets a ruined play that doesn't satisfy anybody.
So, how do you deal with sub frenzy?
As a sub:
Gather knowledge.
Knowing that there's a name for what you're going through can be enormously helpful. It helps to know that you're not actually losing your mind and that other people have been through it.
Build a support system.
Find other submissives, either real-time or online; join discussion groups; attend munches. First, find friends and THEN find play partners.
Play with friends.
Find a trusted friend or "service" top who can take the edge off your intensity with friendly play to gain some of the experience you want and need. Or you can find local play parties where there are dungeon monitors and other people around to look out for you.
Use "safe calls."
A safe call is a method where you check in with another person who knows where you are going, who you are meeting, and when they should expect to hear from you again. If you don't check in at the arranged time, or if you use a pre-arranged code phrase to indicate you are in some kind of distress or danger, your contact person
As a Top/Dominant
Be aware of the signs.
Just as it’s important for submissives to recognize the signs of sub frenzy, it’s equally important for tops/dominants to be aware of them. This includes things like impulsive behaviour, lack of communication, and disregard for safety.
Set clear boundaries.
It’s important for tops/dominants to be firm in their boundaries and communicate them clearly with their submissives. This can include limits on activities, communication expectations, and safety measures.
Take things slow.
It can be tempting to dive headfirst into a scene with an enthusiastic submissive, but it’s important to take things at a pace that is comfortable for both parties. This can mean starting with simpler activities and building up to more intense play over time.
Communicate openly and honestly.
As with any BDSM play, communication is key. This means checking in with your submissive regularly, being honest about your own comfort levels and boundaries, and being receptive to feedback from your submissive.
Provide support and guidance.
As a top/dominant, it’s important to provide your submissive with guidance and support throughout their journey. This can mean offering advice on safe play, checking in on their mental and emotional well-being, and being there for them as they work through their sub frenzy.
In conclusion, sub frenzy can be a thrilling and exciting experience for submissives, but it can also be dangerous if not handled carefully.
By being aware of the signs, communicating openly, and taking things slow, both submissives and tops/dominants can navigate sub frenzy in a safe and enjoyable way.
P.S - Remember to prioritise safety, communication, and respect.