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Spirituality and BDSM
Spirituality, at its core, is about seeking connection—whether that be with oneself, others, the universe, or a higher power.

TheAftercareLounge
Aug 27, 20244 min read


The Psychology of Submission
Submission, the act of yielding or surrendering to the authority or will of another, a psychological phenomenon that has intrigued scholars

Nicholas
Aug 20, 20249 min read


"Bad Pain" in BDSM.
"Bad pain" refers to any pain experienced during a BDSM scene that is harmful, unintended, or unsafe.

Nicholas
Aug 15, 20245 min read


Overcoming Disrespect in a BDSM Relationship
While power dynamics play a significant role in these relationships, disrespect should never be tolerated or overlooked.

TheAftercareLounge
Aug 15, 20245 min read


BDSM and Attachment Theory
BDSM and attachment theory intersect in exploring how early bonds influence adult intimacy, with BDSM roles reflecting attachment needs and

Nicholas
Aug 12, 20245 min read


BDSM and Sexual Health: how to Practice Safe Sex.
Sexual health within the BDSM community involves more than just physical safety; it also includes emotional and psychological care

Nicholas
Aug 3, 20243 min read


Misconceptions About Submission in BDSM and Feminism.
We will address ten prevalent misconceptions and provide detailed explanations for each, and exploration of how submission can be empowering

Nicholas
Jul 25, 20245 min read


Pet Names and Titles in BDSM
In the multifaceted world of BDSM, pet names and titles hold a significant place

TheAftercareLounge
Jul 5, 20243 min read


Exploring Remote Play Sex Toys
Remote play sex toys are revolutionising the way couples connect and experience intimacy, especially in long-distance relationships

Nicholas
Jul 4, 20244 min read


PTSD in the BDSM Community
While often misunderstood, BDSM can offer therapeutic benefits for individuals with PTSD, providing a consensual and controlled environment

Nicholas
Jun 27, 20244 min read


Dominants are Human.
Doms are often perceived as confident, in control & emotionally resilient, but it's crucial to remember that Dominants are human.

Nicholas
Jun 25, 20243 min read


Fake Submissives
A fake submissive pretends to be compliant and obedient while subtly manipulating situations to maintain control and achieve their own goals

TheAftercareLounge
Jun 24, 20244 min read


Self Collaring in BDSM
Self-collaring is wearing a collar to signify submissive or dominant identity, chosen independently rather than at a partner's direction.

Nicholas
Jun 13, 20244 min read


Play Partners in BDSM
What is a play partner in BDSM? A play partner in BDSM is an individual who engages in consensual BDSM activities, often without the...

Nicholas
Jun 8, 20243 min read


Intimacy in BDSM Relationships.
Intimacy is the deep emotional and physical connection between individuals characterized by trust, closeness, and vulnerability.

TheAftercareLounge
Jun 4, 20244 min read


Aftercare in BDSM for the Dominant Partner
Aftercare in BDSM is crucial for the well-being of both submissive and dominant partners. It's vital to address the needs of both.

Nicholas
May 31, 20248 min read


Friendships in the BDSM Community
In BDSM friendships are vital for emotional support, guidance, safety, and belonging,offering a lifeline in an often misunderstood lifestyle

TheAftercareLounge
May 29, 20243 min read


Understanding PRICK in BDSM: Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink
PRICK stands for "Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink," emphasizing the importance of individuals taking personal res

Nicholas
May 27, 20244 min read


Understanding Impact Toys in BDSM
What are impact toys in BDSM? Impact toys in BDSM are implements such as paddles, floggers, whips, and canes used to deliver controlled...

Nicholas
May 25, 20244 min read


Ethical BDSM Practices and Principles.
Ethical BDSM practices and principles refer to consensual, respectful, and safe engagement in BDSM activities.

Nicholas
May 21, 20245 min read
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